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We can say no / by Bowers, Lydia,author.; Muñoz, Isabel,illustrator.(CARDINAL)539008;
"A story that helps teach young children that it's okay to say no. Feeling empowered to say no is a key foundation of consent. We Can Say No builds children's social and emotional skills and helps teach them that it's okay to say no. The fifth book in the We Say What's Okay series, We Can Say No follows Zakiya and Sami as they learn that their bodies, including their hair, belong to them and that no one should touch them without permission. Using the book as a read-aloud, educators and families can model the language Zakiya and Sami's teacher uses to support them. The author, who hosts workshops and trainings on teaching boundaries and consent for families and early childhood educators around the country, offers additional activities in the back of the book. Digital content includes a song from Peaceful Schools with downloadable audio files and sheet music. We Say What's Okay SeriesCentered around a class of preschoolers, this series helps teach young children the social and emotional skills they need to understand the complexities of consent. Each book covers a consent theme, such as how to recognize the physical sensations that emotions create, look for body language cues, ask for and listen to choices, and know that our bodies have value. With believable, everyday situations and diverse characters, children can see themselves and others reflected in each story-and develop a vocabulary to communicate consent and feelings. Every book in the series is accompanied by its own song from Peaceful Schools with downloadable audio files and sheet music. "--"The story in book five of the We Say What's Okay series helps children to realize that no one is entitled to another's body, which includes things like hair and wheelchairs. Children will be empowered to say no (and it doesn't have to be polite)"--Ages 3-5AD520L
Subjects: Informational works.; Picture books.; Selp-help publications.; Assertiveness (Psychology); Assertiveness in children; Boundaries (Psychology); Personal space; Respect for persons; Self-protective behavior; Sensory disorders;
Available copies: 21 / Total copies: 27
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Spotting danger before it spots you : build situational awareness to stay safe / by Quesenberry, Gary,author.(CARDINAL)873898;
Includes bibliographical references (pages 133-135) and index.Introduction -- Phase one. Understand the threat. The basics of predatory behavior ; Conducting a self-assessment -- Phase two. Build your situational awareness. The basics of awareness ; The next level of awareness -- comprehend, identify, and anticipate -- Phase three. Develop personal defenses. What comes next ; Reinforcing your defense -- Putting it all together -- Conclusion.Spotting danger before it happens is a skill that can be developed and may even save your life. Author Gary Quesenberry breaks down the basic techniques necessary to help you develop good situational awareness and increase your levels of personal safety. He will then provide you with the tools you need to properly identify and evade danger before it ever has a chance to materialize.--Publisher.
Subjects: Situational awareness; Self-protective behavior.; Safety education.; Self-defense.; Self-preservation.; Self-defense; Instinct.; Crime prevention; Victims of crimes; Violence; Women; Children; Women.; Womyn.; Children.;
Available copies: 1 / Total copies: 1
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Survive the unthinkable : a total guide to women's self-protection / by Larkin, Tim(Self-defense instructor)(CARDINAL)403974;
When the unthinkable happens -- How predators think -- Your most powerful weapon -- The will to survive -- The engine of violence -- Your attacker is more vulnerable than you think -- Cause and effect -- The human machine? -- Fearless forever.Outlines a strategic methodology for women designed to build self-protection skills, providing coverage of specific aggressive behaviors and how to wage an effective counter-attack.
Subjects: Self-defense for women.; Women; Women.; Womyn.;
Available copies: 3 / Total copies: 3
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The white knight syndrome : rescuing yourself from your need to rescue others / by Lamia, Mary C.(CARDINAL)352563; Krieger, Marilyn J.(CARDINAL)495508;
Includes bibliographical references (pages 195-199).
Subjects: Couples; Helping behavior.; Interpersonal relations.; Man-woman relationships.; Need (Psychology);
Available copies: 3 / Total copies: 3
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Daring to love : move beyond fear of intimacy, embrace vulnerability, and create lasting connection / by Firestone, Tamsen,author.(CARDINAL)679145; Firestone, Robert,author.(CARDINAL)515740; Greenberg, Leslie S.,writer of foreword.(CARDINAL)785420;
Includes bibliographical references (pages 189-193)."Does it feel like your relationships never work out? After a breakup, do you spend most of your time dwelling on what the other person did to cause it, rather than reflecting on yourself? This book will help you identify the self-protective behaviors that keep you from building the intimate, lasting relationships you truly desire. Using techniques based in the authors' groundbreaking voice therapy-- the process of acknowledging unhealthy patterns aloud-- you'll uncover the real reasons you're sabotaging your love life and learn to quiet destructive thoughts that are rooted in fear of rejection, shame, or jealousy. With this book as your guide, you can approach your relationship with openness and fearlessness--two key ingredients for romantic bliss!"--Back cover.
Subjects: Defense mechanisms (Psychology); Intimacy (Psychology); Self-actualization (Psychology); Interpersonal relations;
Available copies: 3 / Total copies: 3
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Good people, bad managers : how work culture corrupts good intentions / by Culbert, Samuel A.,author.(CARDINAL)746205;
Includes bibliographical references and index.Foreword / Henry Dubroff -- Time to face it : bad management is the norm -- Doublethink : how managers convince themselves bad behavior is good managing -- What people skills do managers (actually) acquire? -- Why managers feel so very vulnerable -- How managers self-protect -- What prevents good management -- Overcoming cultural resistance to good management -- Getting company supports for good management -- Consciousness-raising to promote other-directedness in management.In Good People, Bad Managers: How Work Culture Corrupts Good Intentions, author Samuel A. Culbert makes readers aware of what bad habits are routinely followed by well-intended managers. Managers need to understand the causes for their constant distraction, become more aware of the negatives they inadvertently inflict, and the hollowness of the rationales they use to justify what they do. Company leaders, CEOs, and top tier managers need to become more aware of the ever-present concerns of their own workforce, implementing the management mentality they want in their company and then teaching their managerial employees how to absorb it.
Subjects: Management.; Supervisors.; Executives.; Executive ability.; Corporate culture.; Organizational behavior.;
Available copies: 2 / Total copies: 2
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Insight is 20/20 : how to trust yourself to protect yourself from narcissistic abuse and toxic relationships/ by Pumphrey, Chelli.;
Includes bibliographical references.Despite common misperceptions about survivors of narcissistic abuse being codependent or riddled with histories of trauma, the majority of survivors fit a surprising profile that debunks common stereotypes. Based on the most current research in this emerging field of pathological abuse, this book highlights the true reasons behind how and why people become victims, including insights into personality traits, attachment styles, and more. In Insight Is 20/20: How to Trust Yourself to Protect Yourself from Narcissistic Abuse & Toxic Relationships, Chelli Pumphrey's anecdotes, clinical examples, and research teach you about the signals of your mind, body, and heart that can alert you to the dangers of a pathological partner. Instead of simply looking for the "red flags" when dating or with your partner, you'll learn how to identify your own "internal red flags" that can help you prevent, identify, or leave abusive or toxic relationships.
Subjects: Self-help publications.; Narcissism.; Manipulative behavior; Interpersonal conflict.; Manipulative behavior.; Psychological abuse.; Control (Psychology);
Available copies: 1 / Total copies: 1
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Hooked : new science on how casual sex is affecting our children / by McIlhaney, Joe S.,author.(CARDINAL)758871; Bush, Freda McKissic,author.(CARDINAL)490495;
Includes bibliographical references (pages 145-165) and index.Let's talk sex -- Meet the brain -- The developing brain and sex -- Baggage claim -- Thinking long-term -- The pursuit of happiness -- Final thoughts.Society tells us that sex is an act of self-expression, a personal choice for physical pleasure that can be summed up in the ubiquitous phrase "hooking up." Millions of American teenagers and young adults are finding that the psychological baggage of such behavior is having a real and lasting impact on their lives. They are discovering that "hooking up" is the easy part, but "unhooking" from the bonds of a sexual relationship can have serious consequences. This book takes a practical look into new scientific research showing how sexual activity causes the release of brain chemicals which then result in emotional bonding and a powerful desire to repeat the activity. This book will help parents and singles understand that "safe sex" isn't safe at all; that even if they are protected against STDs and pregnancy, they are still hurting themselves and their partner. - Publisher.
Subjects: Teenagers; Children; Adolescent psychology.; Child psychology.; Interpersonal relations in adolescence.; Interpersonal relations in children.; Children.;
Available copies: 1 / Total copies: 2
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Rebel revealed / by Anderson, Josh,author.(CARDINAL)564902;
Having learned he is connected to the Seres that protect the time tunnel, Kyle must search for Ayers and consider what he must sacrifice to keep the timestream the way it should be.HL860L
Subjects: Fiction.; Behavior; Guilt; Interpersonal relations; Self-acceptance; Time travel; Traffic accidents;
Available copies: 1 / Total copies: 1
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The blade phenomenon / by Anderson, Josh,author.(CARDINAL)564902;
Trapped beneath a fallen building, Allaire recalls her past and her work with the Seres responsible for protecting the time tunnel, and wonders if Kyle is the last chance to keep the world from ending.HL850L
Subjects: Fiction.; Behavior; Guilt; Interpersonal relations; Self-acceptance; Time travel; Traffic accidents;
Available copies: 1 / Total copies: 1
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