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Gaslighting : a step-by-step recovery guide to heal from emotional abuse and build healthy relationships / by Vinall, Deborah,author.;
Includes bibliographical references (page 152-153) and index.Introduction and how to use this book -- Part One: Gaslighting and emotional abuse. Understanding gaslighting ; The gaslighter's playbook ; Emotional abuse and recovery -- Part Two: The 7 steps. Accept that it's happening ; Understand the cycle ; Let yourself grieve ; Focus on yourself ; Building healthy boundaries ; Make decisions ; Develop healthy relationships and break the cycle for good -- A final word.Gaslighting is a targeted form of manipulation, deception, and control that makes you doubt your own perceptions, feeling, and memories. Whether you've experienced gaslighting or emotional abuse from someone in your life - or you think you might have - this gives you the tools to recognize the signs of it and begin the process of healing.
Subjects: Informational works.; Control (Psychology); Manipulative behavior.; Psychological abuse.;
Available copies: 1 / Total copies: 1
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Dear Hanna : a novel / by Stage, Zoje,author.(CARDINAL)355765;
Hanna is no stranger to dark thoughts: as a young child, she tried to murder her own mother. But that was more than sixteen years ago. And extensive therapy--and writing letters to her younger brother--has since curbed those nasty tendencies. Now twenty-four, Hanna is living an outwardly normal life of domestic content. Married to real estate agent Jacob, she's also stepmother to his teenage daughter Joelle. They live in a beautiful home, and Hanna loves her career as a phlebotomist--a job perfectly suited to her occasional need to hurt people. But when Joelle begins to change in ways that don't suit Hanna's purposes, her carefully planned existence threatens to come apart. With life slipping out of her control, Hanna reverts to old habits, determined to manipulate the events and people around her. And the only thing worse than a baby sociopath is a fully grown one.
Subjects: Psychological fiction.; Thrillers (Fiction); Psychopaths; Stepmothers; Manipulative behavior;
Available copies: 27 / Total copies: 37
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After dark, my sweet [videorecording] / by Dern, Bruce,actor.(CARDINAL)346640; Dickerson, George,actor.; Foley, James,1953-film director,screenwriter.(CARDINAL)340676; Giordani, Rocky,actor.; Kidney, Ric,film producer.(CARDINAL)848120; Patric, Jason,actor.(CARDINAL)357059; Redlin, Robert,film producer,screenwriter.; Ward, Rachel,1957-actor.; Avenue Pictures,production company.(CARDINAL)847534; Kino Lorber, Inc.,publisher.(CARDINAL)347545;
Jason Patric, Rachel Ward, Rocky Giordani, George Dickerson, Bruce Dern.Jason Patric (The Beast) stars in this mesmerizing neo-noir thriller of the erotic tensions that explode into violence when a kidnapping goes wrong. Collie is an ex-boxer who seems the perfect pawn to pull off a kidnapping planned by a sexy widow and a cop-turned-con man. What they don₂t know is that Collie is an escape from a mental institution. When he realizes the woman he loves has been manipulating him, Collie turns the tables playing a game of deceit and raw desire that can only end in death.MPAA Rating: R.Blu-ray, wide screen; requires Blu-ray player.
Subjects: Detective and mystery films.; Feature films.; Fiction films.; Video recordings for the hearing impaired.; Deception; Kidnapping; Manipulative behavior;
Available copies: 1 / Total copies: 1
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Healing from toxic relationships [sound recording] : 10 essential steps to recover from gaslighting, narcissism, and emotional abuse / by Sarkis, Stephanie Moulton; Young, Suehyla El-Attarnarrator.;
Read by Suehyla El-Attar Young.Surviving and escaping a toxic or abusive relationship can often only be part of the struggle. Long after, survivors often struggle to heal. Dr. Sarkis extends compassion and knowledge to survivors, helping you understand the underpinnings of toxic behavior and how to find peace.
Subjects: Self-help publications.; Interpersonal conflict.; Manipulative behavior.; Psychological abuse.;
Available copies: 1 / Total copies: 1
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Emotional blackmail : when the people in your life use fear, obligation and guilt to manipulate you / by Forward, Susan,author.(CARDINAL)136574; Frazier, Donna,author.(CARDINAL)640801;
Part I) Understanding the blackmail transaction: Diagnosis: emotional blackmail -- The four faces of blackmail -- A blinding FOG -- Tools of the trade -- The inner world of the blackmailer -- It takes two -- The impact of blackmail -- Part II) Turning understanding into action -- Introduction: A time for change -- Before you get started -- A time for decision -- Strategy -- Cutting through the FOG.Discusses how emotional blackmail operates and why some people are vulnerable to it; provides case histories of people who have been subjected to the fear, obligation, and guilt it inspires; and offers step-by-step advice on how to react when targeted for emotional blackmail.
Subjects: Manipulative behavior.; Control (Psychology); Interpersonal relations.;
Available copies: 4 / Total copies: 5
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The highly sensitive person's guide to dealing with toxic people : how to reclaim your power from narcissists and other manipulators / by Arabi, Shahida,author.(CARDINAL)823806;
Includes bibliographical references (pages 185-194).The highly sensitive person's journey among toxic people -- The trinity: HSPs, toxic manipulators, and narcissists -- Benign and malignant: the five types of toxic people -- Toxicity playbook: countering manipulation tactics -- Toxic-person rehab: breaking the addiction and going no contact -- Boundaries: electric fences that ward off predators -- Prepare your arsenal: self-care strategies and reframing skills for everyday life -- Refuge and recovery: healing modalities for HSPs."Highly sensitive people (HSPs) and those who identify as empaths are natural targets for narcissists, emotional vampires, and other controlling people due to their giving nature. The Highly Sensitive Person's Guide to Dealing with Toxic People is a practical road map to help HSPs identify and deal effectively with toxic people-at work, in the family, in friendships, or in romantic relationships"--
Subjects: Interpersonal conflict.; Psychological abuse.; Manipulative behavior.;
Available copies: 2 / Total copies: 5
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Outsmarting the sociopath next door : how to protect yourself against a ruthless manipulator / by Stout, Martha,1953-author.(CARDINAL)706976;
Includes bibliographical references and index.Prologue: dueling with the devil -- A hole in the psyche: understanding sociopathy -- When the sociopath belongs to you: children without conscience -- Human evil at work: sociopathic coworkers, bosses, and professionals -- The sociopath in court: fighting for child custody -- The iciest of all: assaultive and homicidal sociopaths -- Transcending the sociopath's effects: ten key guidelines -- Sociopath or narcissist?: recognizing narcissistic personality disorder -- Sociopathy at the institutional level: corporations and governments -- The nature of good: compassion, forgiveness, and freedom -- Notes -- Acknowledgments -- Index."From Dr. Martha Stout's influential work The Sociopath Next Door, we learned how to identify a sociopath. Now she tells us what to actually do about it. Using the many chilling and often heartbreaking emails and letters she has received over the years, Dr. Stout uncovers the psychology behind the sociopath's methods and provides concrete guidelines to help navigate these dangerous interactions"--
Subjects: Manipulative behavior; Psychopaths.; Control (Psychology);
Available copies: 5 / Total copies: 10
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Type 1 Sociopath : When Difficult People Are More Than Just Difficult People...and They Are Everywhere (Identify the Sociopath in Your Life) / by Speers, P.A.,author.;
Includes bibliographical references.A Message to Those Who Pray -- Introduction -- What Is a Type 1 Sociopath -- What Is the Difference Between Sociopathy, Psychopathy, and Antisocial Personality Disorder? -- Confession of a Former Doormat - My Story -- Jamie - A Wolf Among Us -- Therapists: Give Me My Money Back! -- What Causes Sociopathy? -- Examination of a Type 1 Sociopath -- Are You Browbeaten or Browbeating? -- The Way of "The Way I Am" -- Caught on Tape! -- The Hoaxer Plays Celebrities -- Typical Victims of Sociopaths -- Do You Suffer From Doormatitis? -- What Is Narcissistic Personality Disorder? -- The Buck Stops at the Apples -- Defining a Healthy Relationship -- How to Protect Yourself from Sociopaths -- Run, Forrest, Run! -- Why Ask Why? -- Mother Teresa and Sociopaths -- Are YOU a Sociopath? -- The Brighter Side of Sociopathy -- Is the Difficult Person in Your Life a Type 1 Sociopath? -- Can You Identify the Sociopathic Traits in Jamie? -- Your Happiness is Up to You -- Final Thoughts -- Acknowledgments -- Suggested Reading and Resources -- References.Is the Difficult Person in Your Life More Than Just Difficult? Are they expert blamers when things don't go their way? Do they seem to enjoy belittling you? Do you feel stupid, unattractive and/or insecure around them? Do you feel used? P.A. Speers has compelling insight on why "nice guys" (and gals) finish last and how they can finish first. After Speers experienced a tsunami of users, manipulators, and dangerous individuals, she discovered there are people camouflaged among you who have no conscience. By reading this book, you will discover: -What most psychologists won't tell you -What most religious and spiritual organizations don't know -How to protect yourself and your children from Sociopaths -How to recognize traits of a Type 1 Sociopath -How to free yourself from the Type 1 Sociopaths in your life -How to prevent and cure Doormatitis -What most How to Deal with Difficult People Seminars won't tell you -And so much more!
Subjects: Manipulative behavior; Psychopaths.; Control (Psychology);
Available copies: 1 / Total copies: 1
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1984 / by Orwell, George,1903-1950(CARDINAL)141927;
"Winston Smith toes the Party line, rewriting history to satisfy the demands of the Ministry of Truth. With each lie he writes, Winston grows to hate the Party that seeks power for its own sake and persecutes those who dare to commit thoughtcrimes. But as he starts to think for himself, Winston can't escape the fact that Big Brother is always watching... A startling and haunting novel, 1984 creates an imaginary world that is completely convincing from start to finish. No one can deny the novel's hold on the imaginations of whole generations, or the power of its admonitions--a power that seems to grow, not lessen, with the passage of time."--Provided by publisher
Subjects: Totalitarianism; Manipulative behavior;
Available copies: 0 / Total copies: 2
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Controlling people : how to recognize, understand, and deal with people who try to control you / by Evans, Patricia M.(Patricia Marie),1944-(CARDINAL)761840;
Includes bibliographical references and index.Includes bibliographical references and index
Subjects: Control (Psychology); Manipulative behavior.; Anger.; Interpersonal relations.;
Available copies: 8 / Total copies: 10
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