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1-2-3 magic / by Phelan, Thomas W.,1943-(CARDINAL)435874;
This revised edition of the award-winning 1-2-3 Magic program addresses the difficult task of child discipline with humor, keen insight, and proven experience. The technique offers a foolproof method of disciplining children ages two through 12 without arguing, yelling, or spanking. By means of three easy to follow steps, parents learn to manage troublesome behavior, encourage good behavior, and strengthen the parent-child relationship, avoiding the "Talk-Persuade-Argue-Yell-Hit" syndrome that frustrates so many parents. Ten strategies for building a child's self-esteem and the six types of testing and manipulation a parent can expect from the child are discussed, as well as tips on how to prevent homework arguments, make mealtimes more enjoyable, conduct effective family meetings, and encourage children to start doing their household chores. New advice about kids and technology and new illustrations bring this essential parenting companion completely up to date.
Subjects: Parenting.; Child rearing.; Discipline.;
Available copies: 5 / Total copies: 9
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The perfect child / by Berry, Lucinda,author.(CARDINAL)798721;
"Christopher and Hannah are a happily married surgeon and nurse with picture-perfect lives. All that's missing is a child. When Janie, an abandoned six-year-old, turns up at their hospital, Christopher forms an instant connection with her, and he convinces Hannah they should take her home as their own. But Janie is no ordinary child, and her damaged psyche proves to be more than her new parents were expecting. Janie is fiercely devoted to Christopher, but she acts out in increasingly disturbing ways, directing all her rage at Hannah. Unable to bond with Janie, Hannah is drowning under the pressure, and Christopher refuses to see Janie's true nature. Hannah knows that Janie is manipulating Christopher and isolating him from her, despite Hannah's attempts to bring them all together. But as Janie's behavior threatens to tear Christopher and Hannah apart, the truth behind Janie's past may be enough to push them all over the edge."--
Subjects: Thrillers (Fiction); Novels.; Abandoned children; Surgeons; Nurses; Married people; Adopted children; Married people.;
Available copies: 0 / Total copies: 7
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1-2-3 magic : effective discipline for children 2-12 / by Phelan, Thomas W.,1943-author.(CARDINAL)435874;
Includes bibliographical references (pages 248-251) and index.Parenting : long hours, no pay, excellent benefits -- Building a solid foundation for parenting. Orientation to the parenting profession ; Your job as a parent ; Challenging the little adult assumption ; Avoiding the two biggest discipline mistakes -- Controlling obnoxious behavior : parenting job 1. Getting results through counting ; Advice for nearly any counting challenge ; Disciplining your child in public Real-life story 1 : The case of the temper tantrum terrorist ; How to handle sibling rivalry, tantrums, pouting, and lying ; Real-life-story 2 : The incredible case of the traveling troublemakers ; Getting started with counting -- Managing testing and manipulation. Recognizing the six types of testing and manipulation ; Tales from the trenches -- Encouraging good behavior : parenting job 2. Establishing positive routines ; Getting up and out in the morning ; Cleaning up and chores ; Surviving suppertime ; Tackling the homework problem ; Going to bed-- and staying there! ; Real-life story 3 : The case of bedlam at bedtime ; Managing your expectations -- Strengthening your relationships with your children : parenting job 3. Sympathetic listening ; Real-life story 4 : The case of the fickle friends ; The dangers of over-parenting ; Real magic : one-on-one fun ; Solving problems together -- Enjoying your new family life. Staying consistent ; Your happy, healthy family."Being a parent is one of the most rewarding experiences in life, but every family faces challenges that can be frustrating and overwhelming. For more than twenty-five years, internationally renowned clinical psychologist Thomas W. Phelan's 1-2-3 Magic has helped millions of parents, teachers, and caregivers raise independent, emotionally intelligent children and build happier, healthier families-all through an easy-to-understand program that you'll swear 'works like magic'"--National Parenting Publications Awards Gold Winner
Subjects: Discipline of children.; Child rearing.; Parenting.;
Available copies: 22 / Total copies: 26
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When I say no, I feel guilty : how to cope--using the skills of systematic assertive therapy / by Smith, Manuel J.,1934-2007.(CARDINAL)345295;
Includes bibliographical references.
Subjects: Assertiveness training.;
Available copies: 1 / Total copies: 2
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Brandwashed : tricks companies use to manipulate our minds and persuade us to buy / by Lindstrom, Martin,1970-(CARDINAL)672640;
Includes bibliographical references (pages 261-284) and index.A brand detox -- Buy buy baby: when companies start marketing to us in the womb -- Peddling panic and paranoia: why fear sells -- I can't quit you: brand addicts, shopaholics, and why we can't live without our smart phones -- Buy it, get laid: the new face of sex (and the sexes) in advertising -- Under pressure: the power of peers -- Oh, sweet memories: the new (but also old) face of nostalgia marketing -- Marketers' royal flush: the hidden powers of celebrity and fame -- Hope in a jar: the price of health, happiness, and spiritual enlightenment -- Every breath you take, they'll be watching you: the end of privacy -- I'll have what Mrs. Morgenson is having: the most powerful hidden persuader of them all: us.for this book, tells us about the most powerful hidden persuader of them all. This searing expose introduces a new class of tricks, techniques, and seductions, the hidden persuaders of the 21st century, and shows why they are more insidious and pervasive than ever.In this shocking, no-holds-barred expose, the author draws on more than 20 years spent in the back rooms and board rooms to reveal all the manipulative ways marketers and advertisers tap into our most deeply seated fears, vulnerabilities, impulses, dreams, and desires, all in the service of taking our dollars. A marketing visionary, he has been on the front lines of the branding wars for over twenty years. Here, he turns the spotlight on his own industry, drawing on all he has witnessed behind closed doors, exposing for the first time the full extent of the psychological tricks and traps that companies devise to win our hard-earned dollars. Picking up from where Vance Packard's bestselling classic, The Hidden Persuaders, left off more than half-a-century ago, this book reveals: New findings that reveal how advertisers and marketers intentionally target children at an alarmingly young age, starting when they are still in the womb! Shocking results of an fMRI study which uncovered what heterosexual men really think about when they see sexually provocative advertising (hint: it isn't their girlfriends). How marketers and retailers stoke the flames of public panic and capitalize on paranoia over global contagions, extreme weather events, and food contamination scares. The first ever neuroscientific evidence proving how addicted we all are to our iPhones and our Blackberrys (and the shocking reality of cell phone addiction, it can be harder to shake than addictions to drugs and alcohol). How companies of all stripes are secretly mining our digital footprints to uncover some of the most intimate details of our private lives, then using that information to target us with ads and offers "perfectly tailored" to our psychological profiles. How certain companies, like the maker of one popular lip balm, purposely adjust their formulas in order to make their products chemically addictive. What a 3-month long guerilla marketing experiment, conducted specifically
Subjects: Consumer behavior.; Consumers; Brand choice; Marketing; Neuromarketing.;
Available copies: 5 / Total copies: 5
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The Christian parenting handbook : 50 heart-based strategies for all the stages of your child's life / by Turansky, Scott,1957-(CARDINAL)705941; Miller, Joanne,1960-(CARDINAL)705942;
With parenting advice coming at you from so many sources, how do you know what to listen to and what to ignore? Develop your own biblical philosophy of parenting and use it to filter the many ideas that come your way.
Subjects: Child rearing;
Available copies: 2 / Total copies: 2
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Better back : a self-help guide to preventing and treating back pain with orthodox and complementary medicine / by Tanner, John(John A.),1952-;
1. The healthy back -- The spine -- The spinal canal -- The ligaments -- The muscles -- Functions of the spine -- 2. Back trouble -- Who is most at risk? -- High-risk occupations -- Psychological factors -- Make your own diagnosis -- 3. Acute and chronic back pain -- Disk problems -- Joint strain and dysfunction -- Ligament injuries -- Muscular strains -- Injuries to the spine -- Spondylolysis and spondylolisthesis -- Structural defects -- Postural pain -- The aging spine -- Spinal stenosis -- Inflammation and disease -- 4. Getting help -- Who should I consult? -- Don't panic -- Stay calm and in control -- Relaxation and pain relief -- Day-to-day living -- Consulting your doctor -- Consulting a specialist -- 5. Manipulation -- Three approaches to treating back pain -- Consulting a physical therapist -- Osteopathy and chiropractic -- Conditions that may respond to manipulation -- 6. Drugs and surgery -- Treatment with drugs -- Injections -- Surgery -- 7. Exercises --Therapeutic exercises for lower back -- Mobilizing exercises -- Abdominal exercises -- Back-strengthening exercises -- Buttock and leg exercises -- Neck exercises -- 8. Posture and everyday activities -- Standing posture -- Alexander technique -- Sitting posture -- Driving -- Lying down -- Taking on jobs at work or at home -- House and garden work -- Caring for children -- Sports -- 9. Coping with chronic pain -- Pain perception -- Coping with pain -- Acupuncture -- Meditation -- Hypnotherapy -- Relaxation -- Tackling your mood -- Reducing pain behavior -- Neurostimulation.
Subjects: Back; Backache;
Available copies: 1 / Total copies: 1
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Joint custody with a jerk : raising a child with an uncooperative ex / by Ross, Julie A.,1959-(CARDINAL)374380; Corcoran, Judy.(CARDINAL)394264;
Subjects: Children of divorced parents.; Joint custody of children.; Divorced parents.; Parenting, Part-time.;
Available copies: 3 / Total copies: 3
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Libre de la manipulación : cómo desatarse de relaciones abusivas / by Mraida, Carlos,author.;
Includes bibliographical references.Manipulation has many faces. One of its most painful faces is the affect. Many are those who have surrendered in a romantic relationship and then found themselves used, abused, devalued and later discarded. Manipulation also may be manifested in a semblance of family relationships. One example of this would be parents who control their children's lives using methods of guilt, fear and victimization.
Subjects: Control (Psychology); Interpersonal relations; Manipulative behavior.;
Available copies: 1 / Total copies: 1
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Diablo guardian / by Velasco, Xavier,author.(CARDINAL)645941;
When a fifteen-year-old girl flees her home in Mexico for New York City, steals a million dollars from her parents, changes her name to Violetta, starts speaking English, dyes her hair blonde, and learns to take off her clothes for money, she survives through manipulation. However, she soon meets her match with the nefarious Nefastofeles, and her life takes a sharp turn for the worst. With the help of her "Guardian Devil" named Pig, Violetta just might learn a thing or two about really living.
Subjects: Fiction.; Children of the rich; Drug abuse; Runaway teenagers; Self-destructive behavior;
Available copies: 3 / Total copies: 4
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