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Take control of what's controlling you : a guide to personal freedom / by Arterburn, Stephen,1953-author.(CARDINAL)741198; Cherry, Debbie L.,author.(CARDINAL)672399;
Includes bibliographical references.Introduction: Yes, You Can Take Control! -- 1. Enjoy Life to the Fullest -- 2. Affirm That Appetites Are a Good Thing -- 3. Avoid Substitutes for What You Really Want -- 4. Jumpstart the Change Process -- 5. Be Aware of Appetite Triggers -- 6. Find Satisfaction in All the Right Places -- 7. Embrace a New Power Source for Life -- 8. Work toward Healthy Balance -- 9. Cultivate a Divine Appetite -- 10. Discover God's Best for Your Life -- Conclusion: A Note to the Still-Frustrated.We've all known someone who just can't seem to break free of a cycle of self-defeating and destructive behavior based on personal appetites that are out of control. Or perhaps we've suffered the consequences, big or small, of addictive behavior in our own lives. Stephen Arterburn offers insight and hope for anyone whose life has spun out of control due to addictions. His revolutionary and refreshing approach to recovery positively recognizes and affirms that our capacity to enjoy and savor life is a gift from God that must be fed for us to be healthy. From there, he helps readers identify and understand what personal needs they are really seeking to fulfill through their problematic behaviors, and lays out a proven step-by-step plan that enables them to reclaim control of their relationships, career, personal happiness-and life.
Subjects: Addicts; Compulsive behavior; Self-control;
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Crossed signals : how to say NO to sexual harassment / by VanHyning, Memory.(CARDINAL)207270;
Includes bibliographical references (pages 211-214) and index.Foreword / Debra Borys -- Defining sexual harassment -- The reality of today's workplace -- Sex, power, or crossed signals? -- Four types of harassing behavior -- Setting limits -- What about romance? -- Sending clear signals -- The three levels of saying NO -- Danger signals -- The risks of choosing silence -- Should you quit? -- Enhancing your credibility -- Seeking help inside your company -- Filing a formal complaint with your employer -- Using the government agencies -- Navigating the legal labyrinth -- The new workplace protocol -- Advice to men -- We're all in this together -- Appendix A: a list of organizations to contact for support and information -- Appendix B: list of government reporting offices -- Appendix C: state time limits for filing complaints -- Appendix D: recommended reading.
Subjects: Sexual harassment.; Sex role in the work environment.; Sexual harassment of women.; Sexual harassment.;
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That Christmas feeling / by Novak, Brenda.(CARDINAL)431390; Novak, Brenda.(CARDINAL)431390; O'Brien, Kathleen.(CARDINAL)517462; Bliss, Karina.(CARDINAL)551528; Copyright Paperback Collection (Library of Congress)(CARDINAL)376993;
A Dundee Christmas: "A woman seeking refuge in a strange town during a snowstorm is taken in by a man who helps her discover that home is where the love is"--Publisher.We need a little Christmas: "A prodigal son returning to his family ranch meets a woman with an unconventional way of bringing the holiday spirit into their town and hearts"--Publisher.Kiss me, Santa: "The battle's on between a reclusive widower and the single mom determined to open his heart and banish his Grinch-like behavior"--Publisher.
Subjects: Romance fiction.; Christmas fiction.;
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Total cat mojo : the ultimate guide to life with your cat / by Galaxy, Jackson,author.(CARDINAL)348034;
Introduction: ¿Qué es mojo? -- Section one. The history of the Mojo-fied world: from raw cat to your cat -- Who is the raw cat? -- The Victorian tipping point -- Section two. A crash course in cats -- The raw cat rhythm -- Communication: cat code cracking -- The Mojo archetypes and the confident where -- Section three. The cat mojo toolbox -- Welcome to the toolbox -- Raw cat 101 and the three Rs -- Catification and territory: mojo-fying the home terrain -- The art of cat parenting -- Cat/animal relationship mojo: introductions, additions, and ongoing negotiations -- Cat/human relationship mojo: introductions, communications, and your role in the mojo -- Whose line is it anyway? Cat parenting and the human challenge line -- Section four. The cat mojo cookbook: cat daddy solutions for industrial strength issues -- When excessive scratching becomes an issue -- When your cats don't get along -- When your cat is biting or scratching humans -- When your cat exhibits annoying, attention-seeking behaviors -- When your cat exhibits "anxiety-related" behaviors -- When outside cats cause trouble for inside cats -- When your cat is a wallflower -- When your cat is thinking outside the (litter) box -- Eso es Mojo."This comprehensive cat care guide from the star of the hit Animal Planet show "My Cat from Hell," Jackson Galaxy, shows us how to eliminate feline behavioral problems by understanding cats' instinctive behavior. Cat Mojo is the confidence that cats exhibit when they are at ease in their environment and in touch with their natural instincts--to hunt, catch, kill, eat, groom, and sleep. Problems such as litter box avoidance and aggression arise when cats lack this confidence. Jackson Galaxy's number one piece of advice to his clients is to help their cats harness their mojo. This book is his most comprehensive guide yet to cat behavior and basic cat care, rooted in understanding cats better. From getting kittens off to the right start socially, to taking care of cats in their senior years, and everything in between, this book addresses the head-to-toe physical and emotional needs of cats--whether related to grooming, nutrition, play, or stress-free trips to the vet"--
Subjects: Trivia and miscellanea.; Cats.; Cats; Cats;
Available copies: 19 / Total copies: 25
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Healing self-injury : a compassionate guide for parents and other loved ones / by Whitlock, Janis,author.; Lloyd-Richardson, Elizabeth,author.;
Includes bibliographical references and index.Preface: Why you and why us? -- Introduction : why this book and why now? -- Part 1: Nonsuicidal Self-Injury (NSSI) Background and Basics. The Basics of Self-Injury ; The family experience of self-injury ; The Context of Self-Injury: Where did it come from? ; Where it starts and why it works -- Part 2: Recovery, treatment, and growth. Ending self-injury ; An Introduction to Therapy: Talking with your child about therapy and finding the right therapist ; Therapy for self-injury ; Beyond surviving: From Disorder to Growth & Discovery -- Part 3: Parents as partners: Skills and tools for helping yourself and your child. I have feelings too! Understanding the role of our own automatic thoughts and reactions ; Becoming a Mindful Parent: Strategies and skills for parenting a child that self-injures -- Part 4: Practical Matters. Positive communications during challenging times: Dealing with authority issues, power struggles, and staying calm when your child is not ; Establishing Guidelines and Expectations for Managing Self-Injury Behaviors ; Collaborations critical for ending self-injury .Healing after Self-Injury provides desperately-needed guidance to parents and others who love a young person struggling with self-injury. Adolescent psychologists Janis Whitlock and Elizabeth Lloyd-Richardson believe that parents must appreciate how important their role is in their child's recovery; there is a lot that parents can do to support their self-injuring children. This book offers strategies for identifying and alleviating sources of distress in children's lives, improving family communication (particularly around emotions), and seeking professional help. Importantly, it also provides compassionate advice to parents with personal challenges of their own, explaining how these can impact the entire family. The book will help parents partner with their children to identify, build, and use skills that will assist them in recovering from self-injury. Vivid anecdotes drawn from the authors' extensive in-depth interviews with real families in recovery from self-injury put a human face on what for many families is a distressing and often isolating experience. Healing after Self-Injury is a must-have for parents who want to assist in their child's recovery, as well as for anyone who lives with, works with, or cares about self-injuring youth and their families.
Subjects: Parent and child.; Self-destructive behavior in adolescence.; Self-destructive behavior in adolescence; Self-mutilation in adolescence.; Self-mutilation in adolescence;
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Secrets of a dog trainer / by Schade, Victoria,author.;
Whether helping a new puppy adjust or working with a dog who's been a member of the household for years, the need for dog training advice is constant. For dog lovers seeking positive solutions to persistent behavior problems, veteran dog trainer Victoria Schade provides fresh, innovative answers in her latest book, 'Secrets of a Dog Trainer.' Approaching common dog training problems from a trainer's point of view, Schade helps readers understand 'trainer think': First, she explains a layperson's typical response to a problem behavior and shows how that response can actually create a longterm problem. Then she shares a positive alternative. When executed properly, Schade's solutions provide predictable, positive outcomes-and happy, well-behaved dogs. With an engaging, approachable perspective, Schade delivers a valuable, solutions-oriented resource for even the newest dog trainers. Heartwarming and funny stories about her clients' dogs are also woven in, making it both informative and lively.
Subjects: Dogs; Dogs;
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Santa's little helper / by McAllister, Angelaauthor.(CARDINAL)771417; Howarth, Daniel,illustrator.(CARDINAL)421936;
During a game of hide-and-seek Snowball, an arctic hare, hides in Santa's sleigh, where Santa Claus finds him and requests his help to deliver presents.Accelerated Reader AR
Subjects: Christmas fiction.; Arctic hare; Hares; Helpfulness; Helping behavior;
Available copies: 13 / Total copies: 18
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Getting The Love You Want : a guide for couples / by Hendrix, Harville,author.(CARDINAL)765767; Hunt, Helen,1949-author.(CARDINAL)380143;
Includes bibliographical references and index.The unconscious partnership -- Love, lost and found -- Childhood wounds -- Your imago -- Romantic love -- The power struggle -- The conscious partnership -- Becoming conscious -- Commitment -- Discovering your partner -- Creating a zone of affirmations -- Defining your curriculum -- Creating a sacred space -- Portrait of two relationships -- The exercises -- Ten steps toward a conscious partnership -- Exercise 1. your relationship vision -- Exercise 2. childhood wounds -- Exercise 3. imago workup -- Exercise 4. childhood frustrations -- Exercise 5. parent (caregiver)-child dialogue -- Exercise 6. partner profile -- Exercise 7. unfinished business -- Exercise 8. the imago dialogue -- Exercise 9. the commitment decision -- Exercise 10. caring behaviors -- Exercise 11. the surprise list -- Exercise 12. the fun list -- Exercise 13. positive flooding -- Exercise 14. the behavior change request dialogue -- Exercise 15. the holding exercise -- Exercise 16. owning and eliminating your negativity -- Exercise 17. zero negativity and reconnecting process -- Exercise 18. visualization of love -- Seeking professional help -- Notes -- Bibliography -- About imago relationship therapy -- Imago contacts -- Additional relationship resources -- Index -- About the authors.
Subjects: Marriage.; Love.; Marriage.;
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Learning to breathe : a mindfulness curriculum for adolescents to cultivate emotion regulation, attention, and performance / by Broderick, Patricia C.(CARDINAL)671626;
Includes bibliographical references (pages 261-266)."Disruptive behavior in the classroom, poor academic performance, out-of-control emotions: if you work with adolescents, you are well-aware of the challenges this age group presents. What if there was a way to calm these students down and arm them with the mindfulness skills needed to really excel in school and life? Written by mindfulness expert and licensed clinical psychologist Patricia C. Broderick, Learning to Breathe is a secular program that tailors the teaching of mindfulness to the developmental needs of adolescents to help them understand their thoughts and feelings and manage distressing emotions. Students will be empowered by learning important mindfulness meditation skills that help them improve emotion regulation, reduce stress, improve overall performance, and, perhaps most importantly, develop their attention. The book also includes a website link with student handouts and homework assignments, making it an ideal classroom tool. The book integrates certain themes of mindfulness-based stress reduction (MBSR), developed by Jon Kabat-Zinn, into a program that is shorter, more accessible to students, and compatible with school curricula. Students will learn to pay attention in the moment, manage emotions as they are perceived, and gain greater control over their own feelings and actions. These mindfulness practices offer the opportunity to develop hardiness in the face of uncomfortable feelings that otherwise might provoke a response that could be harmful (e.g. acting out by taking drugs, displaying violent behavior or acting in by becoming more depressed). This easy-to-use manual is designed to be used by teachers, but can also be used by any mental health provider teaching adolescents emotion regulation, stress reduction and mindfulness skills. The author is a graduate of the MBSR advanced practicum at the Center for Mindfulness in Massachusetts, led by Jon Kabat-Zinn. She is also a clinical psychologist and a certified school psychologist and counselor for grades K-12. In the book, Broderick calls on her years of experience working with adolescents to outline the best strategies for dealing with disruption in the classroom and emotions that are out of hand. The book is structured around six themes built upon the acronym BREATHE, and each theme has a core message. The program allows for themes to be delivered in 6 longer or 18 shorter sessions, depending upon time and needs of students. The 6 core lessons are: Body, Reflection, Emotions, Attention, Tenderness, and Healthy Mind Habits. Learning to Breathe is the perfect tool for empowering students as they grapple with the psychological tasks of adolescence"-- Provided by publisher."The breakthrough book Learning to Breathe presents a research-based curriculum for teachers and clinicians who are seeking ways to help improve behavior and bolster academic performance in adolescents. Drawing on a combination of mindfulness-based therapies, the brief interventions outlined in the book have a strong theoretical basis in both education and psychology, and are proven effective when it comes to dealing with adolescent students who act out in the classroom"-- Provided by publisher.
Subjects: Young adult literature.; Adolescent psychology.; Behavior disorders in adolescence; Behavior modification.; Mindfulness-based cognitive therapy.;
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Psychological triggers : human nature, irrationality, and why we do what we do : the hidden influences behind our actions, thoughts, and behaviors / by Hollins, Peter,author.(CARDINAL)806094;
Introduction to psychological triggers -- Social triggers -- Emotional arousal -- Human drives -- Hunches and gut reactions -- Free will and control -- Cheat sheet."Understand, avoid, and defeat the subconscious causes of your irrational and self-defeating behaviors. It's only human nature. A psychological trigger is something that causes us to act out of urgency - not correctness or even happiness. It's a switch that is flipped outside of our consciousness. This is fertile ground for some of the worst decisions of our lives. Seize control and of your impulses and make better decisions. Psychological Triggers is an introduction to yourself - your impulses, your desires, and everything in your subconscious that drives you to action. It answers the question, "Why did I just make a terrible choice when I know I shouldn't have?" We are all slaves to our triggers, and this book seeks to identify them to better battle them. We might think we are making our decisions independently and out of free will, but you'll discover that to be far from reality."
Subjects: Self-help publications.; Adjustment (Psychology); Behavior modification.; Control (Psychology); Self-help techniques.;
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