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- Codependent no more : how to stop controlling others and start caring for yourself / by Beattie, Melody,author.(CARDINAL)735554;
Includes bibliographical references (pages 291-303).Preface to the Revised Edition -- Introduction -- What's Codependency, and who's got it? -- My story -- Other stories -- Codependency -- Codependent characteristics -- The basics of self-care -- Detachment -- Don't be blown about by every wind -- Set yourself free -- Remove the victim -- Undependence -- Live your own life -- Have a love affair with yourself -- Learn the art of acceptance -- Feel your own feelings -- Anger -- Yes, you can think -- Set your intention -- Communication -- Work a twelve step program -- Pieces and bits -- Soothe yourself -- Learning to live and love again."Melody Beattie's compassionate and insightful look into codependency--the concept of losing oneself in the name of helping another--has guided millions of readers toward the understanding that they are powerless to change anyone but themselves and that caring for the self is where healing begins. Is someone else's problem your problem? If, like so many others, you've lost sight of your own life in the drama of tending to a loved one's self-destructive behavior, you may be codependent--and you may find yourself in this book. With personal reflections, exercises, and instructive stories drawn from Beattie's own life and the lives of those she's counseled, Codependent No More helps you break old patterns and maintain healthy boundaries and offers a clear and achievable path to healing, hope, freedom, and happiness. This revised edition includes an all-new chapter on trauma and anxiety--subjects Beattie has long felt necessary to address within the context of codependency--making it even more relevant today than it was when it first entered the national conversation over 35 years ago."--
- Subjects: Informational works.; Codependency.; Self-care, Health.; Substance abuse;
- Available copies: 33 / Total copies: 78
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- Playing it by heart : taking care of yourself no matter what / by Beattie, Melody,author.(CARDINAL)735554;
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- Subjects: Codependents; Codependency;
- Available copies: 4 / Total copies: 4
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- Codependents' guide to the twelve steps / by Beattie, Melody.(CARDINAL)735554;
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- Subjects: Codependents; Twelve-step programs.;
- Available copies: 1 / Total copies: 2
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- The human magnet syndrome : why we love people who hurt us / by Rosenberg, Ross.(CARDINAL)403344;
Includes bibliographical references (pages 179-188).Emotional manipulators and me : the evolution of the concepts -- The golden rules of the helping professions -- Codependents, emotional manipulators and the "dance" -- The emotional manipulator and codependent relationship dynamics -- "The odd but natural couple" -- Introducing the continuum of self -- The human magnet syndrome : we are all human magnets -- The origins of codependency -- The origins of the emotional manipulation disorders -- Codependency -- The emotional manipulation disorders : understanding the disorder -- Narcissistic personality disorder -- Borderline personality disorder -- Antisocial personality disorder -- Why we can reach codependents and not emotional manipulators -- It's never too late to be who you might have been.
- Subjects: Codependency.; Codependents; Emotional conditioning.;
- Available copies: 2 / Total copies: 3
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- Loving me, loving you : balancing love and power in a codependent world / by Schaeffer, Brenda.(CARDINAL)764123;
Includes bibliographical references (pages 225-228) and index.
- Subjects: Codependents; Relationship addiction.;
- Available copies: 1 / Total copies: 1
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- Take good care : finding your joy in compassionate caregiving / by Orange, Cynthia,author.(CARDINAL)349421;
Includes bibliographical references.A closer look at caretaking -- Family and cultural messages and expectations about caregiving -- Balance and boundaries -- The circle of care -- Cultivating compassion -- Joys, challenges, and the importance of caring for ourselves as we care for others -- When "lightning" strikes : preparing for the unexpected -- When "lightning" strikes : the special challenge of brain disorders and dealing with anticipatory loss -- Raising compassionate children and paying it forward."In a time when tens of millions of people provide care for family members, older adults, and people with special needs, we should all be experts at it. Instead, we often struggle with caring for others while taking care of ourselves. In Take Good Care, author Cynthia Orange brings together compelling testimonies from a wide range of caregivers, advice from leading experts in the field, and her own hard-won wisdom to capture the subtle differences between caretaking and caregiving. With a foreword by Susan Allen Toth, the critically acclaimed author of No Saints around Here : A Caregiver's Days, this book shows us how and why caring for each other can be a mutually rewarding experience. It's easy to become overinvolved in another person's life and needs when giving care. Feeling burdened with expectations and resentments in a codependent relationship hinders a sense of joy, purpose, and engagement. Relationships require empathy and boundaries; with them, a codependent caretaker can transform into an intentional, self-aware, and compassionate caregiver"--
- Subjects: Caregivers; Codependency.;
- Available copies: 1 / Total copies: 1
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- Codependence and the power of detachment : how to set boundaries and make your life your own / by Casey, Karen.(CARDINAL)758984;
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- Subjects: Case studies.; Codependency; Codependency; Individualism; Alienation (Social psychology);
- Available copies: 1 / Total copies: 2
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- Overcoming perfectionism : the key to balanced recovery / by Smith, Ann W.,1950-(CARDINAL)758480;
Includes bibliographical references (page 127).
- Subjects: Codependency.; Perfectionism (Personality trait);
- Available copies: 1 / Total copies: 1
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The codependency recovery plan : a 5-step guide to understand, accept, and break free from the codependent cycle/
Includes bibliographical references and index.Part one: Codependency: an education. -- "I need you to need me" -- Family matters -- Part two: The steps. Get in touch with your "self" -- Prioritize self-care -- Build boundaries -- Maintain open communication -- Nurture intimacy -- Following the path."Break the codependency cycle - one step at a time. You can say no. You can stop people-pleasing and start setting boundaries. You can ask for what you need. With this plan as your guide, you can love and be loved - without sacrifice by freeing yourself from codependency. The Codependency Recovery Plan empowers you to have healthy and happy interdependent relationships. This actionable 5-step program is designed to help you get in touch with your true self, establish and assert boundaries, and communicate with confidence"--back cover.
- Subjects: Codependency.; Codependents; Self-care, Health.;
- Available copies: 1 / Total copies: 1
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- Ending unhealthy codependency for good / by McBride, Cassandra,author.;
Breaking free, stepping forward and taking control of your life are all things we dream of when our self-identity starts to retreat. The problem is that while these phrases sound like anything is possible, you feel like the gap you have to cross is so vast you’ll never get to the other side. But don’t worry — this is a natural way to feel. You’re someone who knows that you want to change your life and that’s the first step on your journey. Now you need to open your eyes and take in what I’m about to tell you…from this moment you CAN break free, live a more emotionally healthy life and start setting the boundaries that will reshape the rest of your life.
- Subjects: Interpersonal relations.;
- Available copies: 1 / Total copies: 1
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